22nd February 2026: No Safewords, No Limits, No Consent (Guest Blog)

A Case Study by Bootblack R

note: we've decided to take this post down for now. it was written with an understanding of ongoing conversations within M/s in mind but this context was lacking from the post itself. we also thought that the appeal of this type of play was self-evident, but we have realised that to most people not already invested in M/s and lifestyle "CNC" this was not the case. we would like to restate, for anyone who has read this, that the play we do is enthusiastic, rewarding, and negotiated – even outwith "safewords", "limits", and "consent". cosigned, yr girl & bootblack R.